Welcome to
Leto Consulting Ltd.
Founded by Diana Goldin and specifically established to continue her specialist work offering parenting workshops to the corporate and banking sectors, alongside working in the specialized area of high conflict and high stakes divorce and separation.
Leto Consulting has two strands:
Leto ParentWise
Co-founded by Diana Goldin and Dr Flavia Ansaldo, Parenting and Wellbeing workshops in the banking and corporate sectors.
Leto SSP - Systemic Safeguarding Partnership
Co-founded by Diana Goldin and Kam Kaur,
Bespoke systemic psychotherapy interventions for parents going through high conflict and high stakes divorce or separation, where children are involved.
Under the umbrella of Leto Consulting Diana pairs with trusted and highly experienced colleagues with whom she has collaborated over many years, in both the public and private sectors. Together, these collaborations have a proven track record of excellent outcomes and repeat business, they continue to grow and evolve to best serve these client groups.
Diana Goldin
MA, BSc (Hons), PGDip, PGCert
As a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist, Diana works with family groups, couples, individuals and anyone in a close relationship to find ways to help each other, to become unstuck and to create change when experiencing difficulties in these important relationships.
Diana is qualified as both an Occupational Therapist and a Family & Systemic Psychotherapist, with 30 years of experience across the NHS and the private sector, in the areas of Paediatric neurodevelopment, mental health (including eating disorders), developmental trauma, parent work and high conflict relationships, including pre and post-divorce or separation involving children.
Email: contact@dianagoldin.com
Dr Flavia Ansaldo
Flavia is a Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist trained at the British Psychotherapy Foundation, and a member of the Association of Child Psychotherapists. Alongside her private practice, Flavia has been working within NHS and Third Sector Child and Adolescent Mental Health organisations for over 15 years, where she specialises in working therapeutically with parents, children and adolescents in distress.
Flavia is also passionate about teaching and is currently holding a senior lecturer’s role within the Child Psychotherapy Doctorate at the British Psychotherapy Foundation and University College London (UCL). Flavia also has a keen interest in research, she is a published author and has completed a Doctorate in Psychosocial Studies at Birkbeck University.
Kam Kaur
Kam is an experienced Independent Social Worker with over 25 years in family support. She specialises in parenting assessments, high-conflict co-parenting, reunification, and therapeutic work with children.
Kam is trained in systemic practice, trauma-informed approaches, court report compilation, and delivers supervision and training for professionals. Her work is child-centred, empathetic, and culturally sensitive.
Email: kam.isw@outlook.com
Leto ParentWise
Written and delivered jointly by Diana Goldin Family/Systemic Psychotherapist & Dr Flavia Ansaldo, Child & Adolescent Psychotherapist.
Diana and Flavia have worked together with families within the NHS for close to a decade and continue to collaborate in private practice. Their combined clinical experience spans 40 years in the sector.
Diana & Flavia’s joint expertise and experience resulted in the parenting workshops they have written together, offered both in person and online, nationally and internationally. As well as these workshops, Flavia and Diana offer direct therapeutic support for couples, families and individuals navigating conflict and change, diagnosis, grief and loss, as well as the ordinary ups and downs of day to day working and family life.
To date, particular workshops have been delivered at JP Morgan and Royal Bank of Canada. Examples of the workshops we deliver are:
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Breaking up, not breaking apart - supporting your child through parental divorce and separation. How to break the news, what to expect, and the golden rules of parenting across two homes.
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Support, don’t protect - Offering guidance on establishing strong parental presence, building and maintaining boundaries which flex to need whilst building resilience and promoting autonomy.
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Strike when the iron is cold - breaking free from being drawn into conflict and escalation with your child/young person.
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My child won’t listen! - Practical tips on how to get out of (and not get into) power struggles.
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Small people, big feelings - transitioning into parenthood and parenting under 5s.
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Returning to work after parental leave - navigating the maze of conflicting roles and responsibilities.
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Tech teens and digital safety - a collaborative (not combative) approach.
To book one of the above workshops, or to discuss bespoke workshop topics, please contact us.
The "Support, Don't Protect" workshop, delivered in person by Flavia and Diana at our head office in Canary Wharf, but simultaneously attended by 300 employees across our international workforce, was so well received my staff are asking for a part 2... thank you and see you again soon!
ES
My colleagues and I really enjoyed the "Support, Don’t Protect" workshop. It was extremely useful & informative, offering real life examples and practical tips on how to support our children while building their resilience.
GG
As I type, I am attending a live webinar by Flavia, "Keep Your Children Safe Online This Summer'. It is fantastic and each slide resonates with my own experience.
JW
Thank you again and really, your session at RBC was fantastic, it will certainly have a useful lasting impact.
DW
Leto SSP
(Systemic/Safeguarding Partnership)
Protecting Relationships. Prioritising Children.
In collaboration with experienced Independent social worker colleague Kam Kaur (who co wrote The Parenting Apart Program, and is also systemically trained), Diana and Kam offer bespoke packages to support parents at any stage of divorce and separation.
Rooted in systemic thinking and informed by specialist safeguarding practice, Diana and Kam offer joint therapeutic support to families navigating separation, conflict, and change. Diana and Kam’s unique partnership brings together the expertise of a social worker and a systemic and family psychotherapist - blending relational insight with children’s social care from the outset.
Diana and Kam have a proven track record of working with families through high-conflict divorce and separation - before, during and after court involvement. While we collaborate respectfully and effectively with legal professionals, our focus remains on reducing conflict, protecting psychological wellbeing and promoting sustainable, child-centred outcomes.
Their work spans private and public law contexts, supporting families where domestic abuse, care involvement, or within a context of complex and additional needs - including autism, ADHD, and AuDHD. Diana and Kam have a great deal of experienced in working with children with neurodevelopmental differences, those in care, and families experiencing trauma.
The aim of Leto, SSP, is always to support families toward resolution, reduce the emotional toll of litigation, and to ensure that the voices and needs of children remain central. Diana and Kam recognise and value the vital role of lawyers in protecting their clients - who are also our clients - and we work collaboratively to bridge legal process and emotional recovery. Together, we create space for healing, safety, and healthier long-term relationships - helping families move forward with compassion and clarity.
Diana and Kam’s joint work has a proven track record and has been highly commended within the legal sector. The services they offer together include:
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Child-Centred Interventions
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High-Conflict Co-Parenting Support
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Domestic Abuse Perpetrator Assessment and Intervention
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Reflective case consultations for psychotherapists, social workers, family support teams, and legal professionals
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Case supervision for practitioners supporting complex family dynamics
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Care plan and parent agreement development informed by systemic, safeguarding, and therapeutic insight
For more information regarding Leto SSP services, please contact us.